
Two Blueprints, One Relationship: How Attachment Theory Helps Couples Stop Fighting About the Surface
Working with couples is one of the most rewarding, and one of the most complex, experiences in the therapy room. Unlike individual therapy, where you hold space for one person’s inner world, couples therapy asks you to hold space for two. Two belief systems. Two communication styles. Two histories. And two very different ideas about what love is supposed to look and feel like. As a couples therapist of 16 years, I am passionate about understanding both partners separately and how they are together.










